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Ashanti And Nelly Are Really "Good Good" Friends

Posted Thu Jul 17, 2008 5:41pm PDT by Billy Johnson, Jr. in Hip-Hop Media Training

One of my favorite parts about interviewing celebrities is listening to their answers. Everyone knows which questions they don't like discussing and we even know the stock responses. But it's still fun to watch them put their Media Training 101 skills to work.

I'm no Wendy Williams or Howard Stern when it comes to interviewing, though I love watching Wendy and Howard calling artists out on their unbelievable stories. My personality is more easy-going and laidback so I just let it flow. I toss the interesting questions out there and let the conversation roll. I am going for the introspective angle.

When I recently interviewed Ashanti for our Pepsi Smash program, I asked her if she and Nelly were engaged and planning to get married. We've all seen that photo of them walking on a beach holding hands. They go to award shows together and blush when asked about each other in interviews. But Ashanti still elected to be evasive when I asked her about her romantic relationship with Nelly.

Ashanti laughed loudly and her eyes bugged out before giving me the rehearsed spiel: "Nelly is a really good friend ..." After watching her new video, in which Nelly portrays her husband, I think she meant to say that the St. Louis rapper was a "really 'Good Good' friend." I wasn't mad. Ashanti's a good interview. (Watch her talk about her "The Way That I Love You" video.)

Of course, playing a husband in a music video doesn't confirm anything. But I find it interesting how celebrity couples dodge the simple questions while also capitalizing off of the interest in their "secret" relationship which is never really on the low.

Best case scenario has been Beyonce and Jay-Z. Before Beyonce dropped "Crazy In Love," I interviewed her and asked her why she and Jay-Z didn't like to be asked about their relationship, but made a song "'03 Bonnie & Clyde (Me And My Girlfriend)." (Read interview.) Beyonce replied, "I thought the song was great. I thought the concept was great. I thought Tupac's original version was great, and I thought the idea of one of the hottest rappers with one of the biggest or hottest whatever you want to call it, R&B artists, was a great concept. It was a great song, great music--everything else doesn't matter. And I think that the video was really great, and I love when R&B artists collaborate with hip-hop artists. I think they complement one another." A month later, the "Crazy In Love" video dropped and the two were singing about being crazy in love and Beyonce was dancing like it.

Watching Ashanti's "Good Good" makes me feel duped again. Oh well. It's a good video though.



 

33 Comments

21. lydie -
LOVE IS NOT A CRIME MY DEAR SO BE YOUR SELF AND STOP SAYING THAT YOUR JUST GOOD.......
GOOD FRIENDS

22. __A_YAHOO_USER__ -
Oh come on, girls. Nelly and Ashanti are both just 'face'. And you females need to quit being fools and being so-superficial."Cute'? thats the sign of a fool who makes and lives by that kind of statement. The bible states that women are the 'originators' of sin, and are easily 'deceived'. So girls get some real knowledge and quit 'patronizing' yourselves. You know what they say, (and this goes for all you 'whipped' guys who kiss up females)... "when you patronize females, their crippled for life." Aint that the facts. There is no debate. GET REAL AND JUST LISTEN TO THE MUSIC. - And quit falling all over yourself.

23. J.J.Longhorn -
I want to marry Ashanti first!

24. Superwoman -
Ashanti is so pretty.I love her music.Her and Nelly have been going out for a while.Maybe they wanna be like Beyonce and Jay-Z keep their PERSONAL life PERSONAL.

25. Ello -
She's just amazing

26. Tj -
i think nelly & Ahanti are a great cuple!

27. Queen oo -
gud for nelly the a realy gud friends as said but nelly should make use of time. good friend good couple.

28. Queen oo -
where is kelly

29. Queen oo -
pls ashanti is pretty nelly should go ahead to be agood friend.

30. WADE D -
u look great

31. Jennifer -
I know Ashanti and Nelly are lovers and not friends so they need to keep it for real .Jan 14 2009 wednesday

32. Naquita K -
i got that good good too... Over N Out

33. Chantal -
Nelly is my man, back off Ashanti
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