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Is Usher's "Trading Places" Video Disrespectful To His Wife?

Posted Fri Oct 3, 2008 10:24am PDT by Billy Johnson, Jr. in Hip-Hop Media Training

A couple weeks ago, MediaTakeOut alleged that the love scenes in Usher's new video "Trading Places" were so steamy that some of his staffers were upset, claiming that the newly married man had taken it too far.

An unnamed source reportedly described Usher's kisses with the video vixen as "disrespectful" to Tameka Foster, the superstar's wife and mother of his baby boy. Foster is rumored to be pregnant with the couple's second child.

After watching the video directed by Chris Robinson, I'm now clear about what prompted the controversy.

The song lyrics advocate intimate role reversal. Usher is telling his woman that he wants her to take charge romantically.

The video offers endless examples.

Usher and the leading lady enjoy extended romps on a bed, leather sofa and stair case.  There is so little clothing worn in the video that there was no need for a stylist or wardrobe budget.

Usher described the video as "very hot, very forward thinking." "This is kinda wishful thinking for all men," he told MTV, "to have a woman finally take control and compliment us the way we compliment them, whether it is taking us out to dinner or opening up the door."

I wonder if Tameka felt disrespected. I doubt it. I would expect that a woman married to a man whose career is based on the appeal of his six-pack would not be fazed by this part of the job.

This song and video will help bring some attention to Usher's Here I Stand, released in April. The album had been deemed a dud, despite making a solid debut with more than 400,000 album sales.

I bet when Usher performs this song on tour he'll bring a female fan on stage at each venue. His 15-date One Night Stand tour kicks off on November 2 in Atlantic City and wraps on November 25 in Dallas.

The adult subject matter will also give Usher a break from the comparisons to Chris Brown, the young new R&B teen pop dancing machine who stole Usher's formula.

2500 Comments

21. glorimer -
go on wit your bad self usher just cuz you married your wifey don't mean you have to throw away your talent.your wife should have known that this is who you are and will remain being since the day you started and the way she met you and now until the day you decide to fall back.if she married you then she should except you for who you are since the day she met you don't stop your talent for no one i hope to meet you soon i also will soon be a celeberty.

22. tasha -
I think the video is wonderful. I don't think the video is disrespectful at all, his wife knew before she married him that this is what he does. It is just acting no different than in movies. I bet his wife don't feel disrespected when the paychecks come and she gets to spend the money.

23. mzjenayza -
Well personally i see both sides of this discussion, i can see how people think that he is disrespecting his wife but at the same time what video's keep your attention now a days.? He's just trying to promote his CD and im quite sure his wife approved on this on the set. Its nothing wrong with this video, its NOT REAL.!!!! Its just fictional as most novels that you read. He's just simply bringing HIS sexy back, Usher is not trying to show his fans that he's getting old and lost his touch, he wants u all to know he still can put u n the mind of his smash hit long ago "Nice &&Slow" so with that being said I LOVED THAT VIDEO.!!!! IT WAS SIMPLY AWESOME.!!!!!!!

24. SexiShorti -
Usher.........great job!!!!! Tam honey, your hubby is keeping it real with you girl.......he's just role playing in the video.........and as usual the media/others are making a mess with misinterpreting..... Usher you are standing out again!!!!

25. Sexy slim -
IT IS SHAME HOW CONFUSED OUR SOCIETY IS NOW-A-DAYS. PEOPLE WILL DO ANYTHING TO MAKE SOME MONEY INCLUDING LOSING THEIR INTEGRITY AND DISRESPECTING THEIR FAMILY. I THINK IT'S PITIFUL. HE COULD HAVE PUT HIS WIFE IN THE VIDEO TO DO THOSE SEXY SCENES, I MEAN SHE WAS GOOD ENOUGH TO MARRY SO SHE SHOULD BE GOOD ENOUGH TO PUT IN THE VIDEO. I WILL CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR OUR GENERATION!

26. Yahoo! Music User -
I like usher. He's a very good artist.
Me personally I would not want my husaband in a video with another women half undressed all over him. He's human and she is too. Temptation is a mother.
Just because other actors and actress do movies like this doesn't mean it's right.

27. Alanda -
WELL USHER U PROVE TO ME AGAIN THAT YOU ARE ONE OF THE MOST SEXIEST AND HOTEST R&B SINGER WELL I ALWAYS LOVE U AND YOUR MUSIC YOUR VIDEO IS HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOT KEEP UP THE GOOD MUSIC AND BIG U WIFEY AND KIDS ONE LOVE PEACE.

28. Alanda -
ONE LOVE VIDEO SELL OFF

29. Nicole J -
I HAVE TO ADMIT THIS VIDEO IS EXTREMELY HOT!!!! IT IS NOT WHAT I EXPECTED BUT HOT. THE PART I LOVE IS WHEN THEY ARE ON THE COUCH AND IT ALMOST LOOK LIKE THERE WAS A THIRD GIRL INVOLVED BUT IT TURNS OUT TO BE THEM OCCUPYIN THE ENTIRE COUCH. USHER U DID UR THING IN THIS VIDEO IT WAS STEAMY HOT SEXXY AND IT IS GOING TO GET SOME PEOPLE TALKIN BUT SO WHAT UR A STAR KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!!!!!

30. Brandoline -
Wow. Hot!

31. funmio -
There's no need to get offended at his video, considering the numerous sex scenes prevalent in TV and movies. Maybe it might have been a little suggestive, but it's not like he was singing about how his girl should "crank dat" or lick his "lollipop." We are such a moral- conscious society that we forget that we don't live in an utopian society.

And for Sexy slim- Yes, I am a christian; we really have no right to judge other people, because we're aren't perfect either.

32. First L -
that video is sick i mean i was getting hot just looking at it. This video is bangin.

33. *CICI* -
DANG UHE I SOOOO OT
I LOVE IZ 8PACK
ND LVED TE VIDE A ALITTL MUCH
UT WHO IN AELL DEZN LUV USHER

HE IZ #1

34. CC -
yea it is a lil to sexy since he is married!
but it not like he can do that video with his wife she is pregnant! But its a hott video an its just a video!!!

35. Capri -
I think the video is very good. He's not been disrespectful. As 4 Sexy Slim & Scooby rere, his wife knew he was an entertainer before she married him. Usher keep doing what u are doing. Keep entertaining ur fans. May God Bless u and ur family. Peace out $Friends4Life

36. MsSchadenfreude -
....You people seriously need typing lessons.

In order to shoot a music video, occasionaly a SKIT is taken place...you know...ACTING.

Usher isn't cheating on his wife, I guess he stopped after Chilli. It's not disrespectful at all.

37. Yahoo! Music User -
Wow! This is hot. Leave this man and his wife alone. With no disrepect intended she knew what he did for a living, and how he was marketed when she married him. Much love to his mom. Welcome back Usher, and congrats on all things positive in your life. What an early birthday gift...I see it being number one for a long time. Hope the tour will be as hot as this video. Once just will not do I plan to make three cities with you.

38. Yahoo! Music User -
I THINK THE VIDEO WAS WONDERFUL AND I DONT THINK HIS WIFE WAS UPSET AT ALL BECAUSE HE DIDNT KISS THE VIDEO GIRL BUT IT WAS VERY SEXY AND INTIMATE BUT IM MORE THAN SURE THAT WHEN HE CAME UP WITH THE IDEA FOR THE VIDEO THAT SHE HAD A SENSE OF WHAT IT WAS GOING TO BE LIKE I KNOW HE HINTED TO HER HIS IDEAS FOR THAT VIDEO AND MANY OTHERS

39. Tine -
Wow! I liked the video so much; I am married makes me want to do it with my husband over and over just by watching the video will make me feel hot

40. Yahoo! Music User -
This video was sexy as hell. Do your thing Usher! If, wifey feels disrespected, she should have not married a R&B artist. I loved every minute of this video. All I can say is GO USHER! Cause honey, if I was in this video. I'll make him want to leave the one he's with and start a new relationship with me.
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