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Is Usher's "Trading Places" Video Disrespectful To His Wife?

Posted Fri Oct 3, 2008 10:24am PDT by Billy Johnson, Jr. in Hip-Hop Media Training

A couple weeks ago, MediaTakeOut alleged that the love scenes in Usher's new video "Trading Places" were so steamy that some of his staffers were upset, claiming that the newly married man had taken it too far.

An unnamed source reportedly described Usher's kisses with the video vixen as "disrespectful" to Tameka Foster, the superstar's wife and mother of his baby boy. Foster is rumored to be pregnant with the couple's second child.

After watching the video directed by Chris Robinson, I'm now clear about what prompted the controversy.

The song lyrics advocate intimate role reversal. Usher is telling his woman that he wants her to take charge romantically.

The video offers endless examples.

Usher and the leading lady enjoy extended romps on a bed, leather sofa and stair case.  There is so little clothing worn in the video that there was no need for a stylist or wardrobe budget.

Usher described the video as "very hot, very forward thinking." "This is kinda wishful thinking for all men," he told MTV, "to have a woman finally take control and compliment us the way we compliment them, whether it is taking us out to dinner or opening up the door."

I wonder if Tameka felt disrespected. I doubt it. I would expect that a woman married to a man whose career is based on the appeal of his six-pack would not be fazed by this part of the job.

This song and video will help bring some attention to Usher's Here I Stand, released in April. The album had been deemed a dud, despite making a solid debut with more than 400,000 album sales.

I bet when Usher performs this song on tour he'll bring a female fan on stage at each venue. His 15-date One Night Stand tour kicks off on November 2 in Atlantic City and wraps on November 25 in Dallas.

The adult subject matter will also give Usher a break from the comparisons to Chris Brown, the young new R&B teen pop dancing machine who stole Usher's formula.

2500 Comments

41. alisa -
OMG YOU PEOPLE ARE CRAZYY..USHER HAS ALWAYS BEEN THIS WAY IN VIDEOS...AND IM SURE TAMEKA KNEW WHAT SHE WAS GETTING HERSELF INTO BEFORE MARRYING HIM! THIS IS A RANDOM VIDEO GIRL, HE DOESNT HAVE FEELINGS FOR HER, HASNT GONE OUT WITH HER. WHATS THE PROBLEM? LEAVE USHER AND TAMEKA ALONE! SHES WAS PROBABLY ON SET WATCHING ANYWAYS! HIGH FIVE USHER! DO YOUR THANG!

42. kri -
WHHHY was usher even born????

43. DR -
what is the difference between this and an actor or actress who has fake sex with another person in a movie? Tameka knew she was marrying a sexy singer who sings sexy songs. Should he start singing songs about family life now? I don't think so. These kinds of songs are his forte. I think his wife is probably fine with it.

44. Lainey -
what's so wrong with the video? so he's married, did anyone have a statement from the wife that she was ticked? why is this such a big deal? i thought that video was smoking hot!! married or not, usher can still turn it on!

45. profiletwenty08 -
Well,I feel like if his"wifey"doesn't fall all to pieces over what he's done in "his" video,why should everyone else get angered over what he's doing in"his"video?"Go~head on Usher!""Do yo thang boi!"

46. FANCY FACE -
I THINK USHER IS SOOOO HOT!!!
I WISH IT WAS ME IN THE VIDEO WITH HIM!!!

47. Yahoo! Music User -
The videographer is not very talented if they could not craft a way to express the same sentiments with fewer actual expressions of intimacy. Angles and positions of shots can convey the same ideas with less of an affront to his wife. Think about how many Hollywood relationshops started between Co-Stars on a film or video? No accident, people.

48. blurry -
um, yea i don't care about any of this really, not a fan, not my problem, but don't tell me usher is christian, lol, that just makes me laugh.

49. lady n red -
Personally, I don't like the songs I've heard so far off of Usher's new cd aside from "Love In The Club." To me his previous cd was far better. I am, however, a huge Usher fan -just a little disappointed this time.

50. vanessav -
Well first off, if the wife is okay with it, then who am I to talk. However, most marriages have been broken by senarios like this. For example, Jen and Brad! It is part of their job to do this sometimes, however sometimes it becomes more.

51. avid diner -
Disrespected? HA! She married a man who is a well known cheater and womanizer so I would be shocked it she felt disrespected ...she knows what she got into when she got this sucka to marry her. Strange that Usher married a woman that looks like a cross dressing man isn't it?

52. Yahoo! Music User -
They do it in movies all the time....maybe this is why Hollywood marriages don't work?

53. Deb -
yeah, i think all of you would change your tune if it was your husband or wife making out with someone else. if i was married to him, i would be pissed.

54. SeeJaneBrowse -
I can't see why he'd want to do a vid of his woman acting like a man, when his wife LOOKS like a man!

55. tiffany -
The people on the site was haten I dont think he disrespected his wife at all. I am happy he is returning to himself before getting married. I was starting worry about him.

56. K/alltheway -
Well, I haven't seen the vid yet but I'm sure I'll like it! But that's part of the business and I'm pretty sure his wife knows that.

57. Teddy a.k.a. Big Daddy! -
The video is no doubt the hottest video in that sense right now! In the same breath though, some scenes in there are "questionable." But if his wife is ok with it then it's cool. It's really a conversaion for those 2 to have.

58. TheThunder -
She mad driving that expensive car, home to that expensive crib... To eat that first class dinner that a chef prepared. She shoulda been sittin there dancin to it w/the jewels and designer gear on. IF she was smart she would've directed it and made it steamier to make the money keep comin in... QUIT FRONTIN if she's mad give all the stuff back leave and ask for no money lol

59. Rachel -
Nobody makes a fuss when married movie stars do this on set.

60. Samantha -
What about married actors/actress' who have hot and steamy sex scenes with other people? It isn't much different...and yet no one makes a big deal out of it.
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