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Is Usher's "Trading Places" Video Disrespectful To His Wife?

Posted Fri Oct 3, 2008 10:24am PDT by Billy Johnson, Jr. in Hip-Hop Media Training

A couple weeks ago, MediaTakeOut alleged that the love scenes in Usher's new video "Trading Places" were so steamy that some of his staffers were upset, claiming that the newly married man had taken it too far.

An unnamed source reportedly described Usher's kisses with the video vixen as "disrespectful" to Tameka Foster, the superstar's wife and mother of his baby boy. Foster is rumored to be pregnant with the couple's second child.

After watching the video directed by Chris Robinson, I'm now clear about what prompted the controversy.

The song lyrics advocate intimate role reversal. Usher is telling his woman that he wants her to take charge romantically.

The video offers endless examples.

Usher and the leading lady enjoy extended romps on a bed, leather sofa and stair case.  There is so little clothing worn in the video that there was no need for a stylist or wardrobe budget.

Usher described the video as "very hot, very forward thinking." "This is kinda wishful thinking for all men," he told MTV, "to have a woman finally take control and compliment us the way we compliment them, whether it is taking us out to dinner or opening up the door."

I wonder if Tameka felt disrespected. I doubt it. I would expect that a woman married to a man whose career is based on the appeal of his six-pack would not be fazed by this part of the job.

This song and video will help bring some attention to Usher's Here I Stand, released in April. The album had been deemed a dud, despite making a solid debut with more than 400,000 album sales.

I bet when Usher performs this song on tour he'll bring a female fan on stage at each venue. His 15-date One Night Stand tour kicks off on November 2 in Atlantic City and wraps on November 25 in Dallas.

The adult subject matter will also give Usher a break from the comparisons to Chris Brown, the young new R&B teen pop dancing machine who stole Usher's formula.

2500 Comments

61. Yahoo! Music User -
my gos,h this shouln't have been show, but fi the it was making out ,it cou;dn't been his wife seriously! in movies ,I tihk when maeke out secned dpeneidn hoyu might better to use your actual husband or wife as satnd in and then use seical eefcts ot make it them look like the other actress

62. Yahoo! Music User -
It isn't that serious!! Whomever made the comment is just trying to cause a problem in their marriage!!! As Usher got older her built his career on being sexy & making the videos to go with it!! She knew this well before saying "I do"!! People like that always have some dumb to say!!

Out of all the women he knew Tameka is the one wearing his ring!!! He could have married a supermodel, actress or another singer. People need to quit stirring up the trouble pop & mind their own business. Obviously this person is a trouble maker & I hope Usher fires them as soon as he finds out who made the comment!! That same person will be the first to spread rumors that he's having an affair!!

63. casey c -
WHO CARES???!!!!

64. ilbtmsm -
If Misses Usher dont like it, then I'm sure she can Handle her own Business!

65. yeah right -
He should throw in the towel and be a family man or something...

66. Dr. -
Does anybody really believe Tameka cares all that much about what goes on at his video shoots? She knew all of that before she married him. I think she is counting that money, and making sure that Momma is taken care of properly when he gets home.

67. Jessie P -
who cares ??? its just for entertainment and his wife knew what she was getting into,,,

68. Daziedag -
It's a video, get over it...

69. MaddieB -
My only say on this is that movies are written a certain way.... the script is done THEN they pick the characters. In a music video, I'm pretty sure the artists have a bit more say as to what happens (in the music video). I haven't watched it, but sometimes these r&b videos go a little overkill with the bump n grind...

70. Yahoo! Music User -
-This is just too much why is there a need for so much sexual activity?
-Videos back in the day wer classy and not nasty......
*Usher show the public that you love your wife and not cheating on her or thinking of cheating on her.

-Lust does not have to be the basis for everything!

71. Alicia -
Ok so im still drooling on my keyboard lmfao Damn Usher u still got it and still could get it ;) lol

72. Lizzie -
If Usher's marriage is solid ( I have my doubts), then there is nothing wrong with the video.

73. JHGDRU JMI -
if his wife does not care why should we???

74. Ziggy -
She knew she was marrying Usher. If he stops doing his thing, then he might as well stop making albums.

75. Yahoo! Music User -
I see nothing wrong with it. I'm quite sure she wasn't attracted to him for just his personality. He was a sex symbol before her and will and should continue to be one. She's probably done everything that they're doing in the video and more. She doesn't have four kids for nothing, ya know? Put on ya big girl panties and deal with it.

76. Captain-Savvy -
I think the world, and the media, is waaay too obsessed with intimicy like this. This sort of thing should be private..... no wonder twelve and thirteen year olds are getting pregnant and having kids these days.

77. Yahoo! Music User -
I personally think that usher is cheating on his wife. It is rumored that usher was leaving out a hotel with a hafe naked women.That they was going through a separation. Usher career went downhill when he left and came back.

78. Yahoo! Music User -
man they just fakin she just on her period at this time lol

79. Bria -
I wish yall would leave him ALONE!!! he doin his thing so "leave him be" as he say.....ya kno???

80. MARK -
Hummm! How many married couples involved in the movie business doing scenes like this stay married??? I don't think they have that good of a track record that we should use as a measuring stick for ourselves.
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