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Is Usher's "Trading Places" Video Disrespectful To His Wife?

Posted Fri Oct 3, 2008 10:24am PDT by Billy Johnson, Jr. in Hip-Hop Media Training

A couple weeks ago, MediaTakeOut alleged that the love scenes in Usher's new video "Trading Places" were so steamy that some of his staffers were upset, claiming that the newly married man had taken it too far.

An unnamed source reportedly described Usher's kisses with the video vixen as "disrespectful" to Tameka Foster, the superstar's wife and mother of his baby boy. Foster is rumored to be pregnant with the couple's second child.

After watching the video directed by Chris Robinson, I'm now clear about what prompted the controversy.

The song lyrics advocate intimate role reversal. Usher is telling his woman that he wants her to take charge romantically.

The video offers endless examples.

Usher and the leading lady enjoy extended romps on a bed, leather sofa and stair case.  There is so little clothing worn in the video that there was no need for a stylist or wardrobe budget.

Usher described the video as "very hot, very forward thinking." "This is kinda wishful thinking for all men," he told MTV, "to have a woman finally take control and compliment us the way we compliment them, whether it is taking us out to dinner or opening up the door."

I wonder if Tameka felt disrespected. I doubt it. I would expect that a woman married to a man whose career is based on the appeal of his six-pack would not be fazed by this part of the job.

This song and video will help bring some attention to Usher's Here I Stand, released in April. The album had been deemed a dud, despite making a solid debut with more than 400,000 album sales.

I bet when Usher performs this song on tour he'll bring a female fan on stage at each venue. His 15-date One Night Stand tour kicks off on November 2 in Atlantic City and wraps on November 25 in Dallas.

The adult subject matter will also give Usher a break from the comparisons to Chris Brown, the young new R&B teen pop dancing machine who stole Usher's formula.

2500 Comments

81. Lucky -
I think everyone needs to stop looking at how good looking he is and have RESPECT your self how do you think his wife feel. I know its his job but it does not half to go that far.

82. Christina -
Does anyone know how to spell out words anymore or is everyone 3 to preteen who types on this page ????? PEOPLE NOT PPL.For heavens sake Please GROW UP

83. Yahoo! Music User -
she shouldn't feel disrespect she known wat she was getin into b4 they got involved she will just have 2 deal wit it hell its a feel she'll get over it... :)
lADY XOXO

84. KERVIN -
it just a video people. i love it do your thing U

85. Blu4577 -
omgosh get over it ppl.. its a video about sex!.. they barely kissed.....i liked the video.. it was very erotic.. keep doing your thug D Usher

86. Yahoo! Music User -
I wonder if she would find it disrespectful if he were to have anonymous gay sex with me, on film, in my hotel room? He is so fine.

87. miriam -
i swear he probably does it behind the camera and his wife doesnt know it.So he should learn some respect & see what he loves more..some lame chicks doing dirty music videos or his wife that loves him???hmm,hes to much of a bad person i swear to everyone that karma is going to come and attack him...hopefully it does!

88. talmaic -
All I can say is HOT DAMN!!!

Usher, you go boy!!!

89. Yahoo! Music User -
This is just a ploy from his mgr. so we the public will want to watch his music video and hopefully for us to buy his music.
It's a great P.R. stunt...So don't ditch Usher's wife.

90. Marc -
You people need to get off the computer and hit the books...bunch of illiterate losers. Why must you type like thugs talk? Wow.

Usher can make a video without this much skin and dry humping, and still get his point across. I've seen him act, and he isn't very good at it...music videos are a far cry from movies, don't even compare the two. Love scenes in movies are fine, if relevant to the story. This video is a bit much for a married man to be "acting" in.

91. Yahoo! Music User -
He'll be trading in that wife and leaving the kid without a dad in his life soon enough. Typical.

92. sO Wh@T -
tameka foster need to get a LIFE!!!!!!!!

93. K -
Usher sucks. I read what's it matter, he's coming home to his wife anyways. Yeah well adulters come home to there spouses also. Does it make it right? His singing sucks, so he's gotta romp around with some groupie tramp to sale records. I wont be shocked to hear he's getting a divorce in a couple years.
Have fun with that child support.

Real Pathetic guy.

94. Marc -
FYI, Sexy Slim said it perfect...and used proper English while doing so. :)

95. Gaurav -
this is wrong.. but i guess it's ok for him to have a concert just for girls. now that's sexist!! but you won't see any feminists complaining!!

96. Yahoo! Music User -
Its just a job. But to be honest with you Usher needs to have a video like this with a fine woman every once in a while cause his wife is a mud duck. It keeps the relationship well cause after this hot and steamy video he can go home and you know what to his wife. That way he releases all the frustration of just filming with a hot girl that he wanted to do but instead does the right thing by doing it with his wife. Just my opinion.

97. jcg j -
this guy is not even attractive!!

98. Yahoo! Music User -
come on they didn't kiss, stop saying stuff that not true. got U she hot man.

99. paradox62 -
I think it's fascinating that so many lolcats and loldogs managed to post. It must be difficult to type without thumbs. Doesn't anybody speak or write English anymore?

As for Usher's wife - the rattlesnake said to the little girl, "You knew what I was when you picked me up."

100. ALEXISJ -
I feel that this video is appropiate based on what's already surfacing in the video world. There is no need to call this video "disrespectful to his wife",I'm pretty sure both of them are familiar with the industry and the things that come along with it. Until Tameka says"this was disrespectful to me", there will be no reason to call this video an act of disrespectfulness towards his wife.
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