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Is Usher's "Trading Places" Video Disrespectful To His Wife?

Posted Fri Oct 3, 2008 10:24am PDT by Billy Johnson, Jr. in Hip-Hop Media Training

A couple weeks ago, MediaTakeOut alleged that the love scenes in Usher's new video "Trading Places" were so steamy that some of his staffers were upset, claiming that the newly married man had taken it too far.

An unnamed source reportedly described Usher's kisses with the video vixen as "disrespectful" to Tameka Foster, the superstar's wife and mother of his baby boy. Foster is rumored to be pregnant with the couple's second child.

After watching the video directed by Chris Robinson, I'm now clear about what prompted the controversy.

The song lyrics advocate intimate role reversal. Usher is telling his woman that he wants her to take charge romantically.

The video offers endless examples.

Usher and the leading lady enjoy extended romps on a bed, leather sofa and stair case.  There is so little clothing worn in the video that there was no need for a stylist or wardrobe budget.

Usher described the video as "very hot, very forward thinking." "This is kinda wishful thinking for all men," he told MTV, "to have a woman finally take control and compliment us the way we compliment them, whether it is taking us out to dinner or opening up the door."

I wonder if Tameka felt disrespected. I doubt it. I would expect that a woman married to a man whose career is based on the appeal of his six-pack would not be fazed by this part of the job.

This song and video will help bring some attention to Usher's Here I Stand, released in April. The album had been deemed a dud, despite making a solid debut with more than 400,000 album sales.

I bet when Usher performs this song on tour he'll bring a female fan on stage at each venue. His 15-date One Night Stand tour kicks off on November 2 in Atlantic City and wraps on November 25 in Dallas.

The adult subject matter will also give Usher a break from the comparisons to Chris Brown, the young new R&B teen pop dancing machine who stole Usher's formula.

2500 Comments

121. Yahoo! Music User -
I'm ashamed that people write with such ridiculous spellings and poor grammar. Get an education and stop trying to be "getto" in order to get attention. Idiots.

122. Yahoo! Music User -
I liked the video and this is one of my favorite songs by him...However I can see where they are coming from with all the kissing and stuff...none the less I thought that Usher had lost it and this video proves right here...that I still want to drink his bath water...lol.

123. Yahoo! Music User -
The chick looked better than his wife lol i mean y couldnt he get his wife to be in his video...look @ Nelly an Ahanti

124. Yahoo! Music User -
The chick looked better than his wife lol i mean y couldnt he get his wife to be in his video...look @ Nelly an Ahanti

125. Justin F -
Who cares? He has no talent and makes crappy music.

126. Yahoo! Music User -
Well an actor like Mel Gibson who reports to be hapilly married with a bazillion kids has nailed about every actress he could during his heyday.

And for the record the difference btw this being work and play is wood. Catch my drift?

127. QUEEN -
I love Usher & I'm sure his wife does, too!
This is not the 1st Video, that my man has done ; that is ..... Hot-&-Steamy! That is stricty his "Album-Selling" Image!
This is simply Publicity, for the upcoming Album !!!!!!!

128. OT -
ITS REAL FUNNY AS AFRICAN AMERICANS WE ARE QUICK TO JUDGE LET THAT MAN MAKE HIS MONEY AND 2 ALL U HATERS KEEP DOING WHAT U DO THATS WHY U WRITING BLOGS AND HE'S MAKING HIS MONEY AND U ARE BITTER SO WHATUP YOU HATERS GET AT ME HAHA!

129. scooby -
Even though Usher, they have to put tons of make up on you, so you don't look like something from the zoo, I won't hate if you didn't have that old seahag in your video, disrespect or no disrespect. If you're young take advantage, if she gets burned....then let it burn. You're in showbiz, with your funny lookin' face.

130. Yahoo! Music User -
No one says anything about the love scenes in movies and television btween non-married actors! That is exactly what Usher is doing...ACTING! It's 2008 people! Quit being so prudish!!!!

131. Esmire -
It may be "HOT" and okay if you are single. but what kind of example is that setting for the world today. Just because, as it is put, "Everyone is doing it", doesn't make it right. Its actually worse because he isn't MAN enough to stand up and set an example. God help this world.

132. cassandra -
that video is maike the MONEY she is spending........she is very lucky that she has him for a husband there are alot of woman doing it alone and with no money

133. Cierra -
the chick looked better than his wife lol i mean they were gettin freaky the video chick might be his new boo, on the low hahahaha

134. beth -
Man, I don't care what he does, if he was my husband I would not be complaining about anything!

135. aSHLEY -
Personally i liked the video. What i don't understand is that all artist have hot steamy sexy video's whats the problem with Usher's there is none. Its just the fact that he's married now instead of single, if he was still single Usher it wouldn't be a problem.......

136. Yahoo! Music User -
Usher married an old welfare hag! ROFL! THEN he has the nerve to tell other black men to take care of their children.....Usher, tell us about the kid you had with a groupie while you were with Chili? HYPOCRITE!

137. Yahoo! Music User -
I agree with Mark R. As I read through these comments, I realize that Usher fans are highly un-educated and cannot spell.

This is the future of our country? I don't see any doctors or lawyers coming out of this bunch. Get ready to sign a bunch of these folks up for welfare.

138. Monique P -
Okay for real this is a maddddddd sexy video.
but i can see why people r upset ....i mean come on this woman is not only his babies mother but is wife!! n he is pretty much having sex with this video slut.....
I feel the disrespect......if i was her i'd blow both of them up (^_^) i see that Uhers wife is allowing him to do his thing n she supports him but man....wheres the line??
someone should make it bolder cuz Mr. Usher just stepped WAAAAAAAY over it!! U guys remember when he was with the girl from TLC right?? she was in all his videos.....so im wondering about some stuff here......

And to Mrs. Usher!!
Put ur foot down girl!!
Even Beyonce watches from the side lines of Mr. Z's videos!!

uggggghhh this soooo proves that marriage is a joke!! (T_T)

139. QueenB -
I dont see what the problem is , its part of his job. Yea if he was the one that designed the video maybe he could have thought of her feelings more but hey what about body piercers, they are up in womens buisness all the time part of the job. My hubby is one & i have no problem. He sees blue dots and dollar bills, maybe its the same w usher.

140. Virtuous -
I don't really care about Usher or his personal business.
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