Is Usher's "Trading Places" Video Disrespectful To His Wife?
A couple weeks ago, MediaTakeOut alleged that the love scenes in Usher's new video "Trading Places" were so steamy that some of his staffers were upset, claiming that the newly married man had taken it too far.
An unnamed source reportedly described Usher's kisses with the video vixen as "disrespectful" to Tameka Foster, the superstar's wife and mother of his baby boy. Foster is rumored to be pregnant with the couple's second child.
After watching the video directed by Chris Robinson, I'm now clear about what prompted the controversy.
The song lyrics advocate intimate role reversal. Usher is telling his woman that he wants her to take charge romantically.
The video offers endless examples.
Usher and the leading lady enjoy extended romps on a bed, leather sofa and stair case. There is so little clothing worn in the video that there was no need for a stylist or wardrobe budget.
Usher described the video as "very hot, very forward thinking." "This is kinda wishful thinking for all men," he told MTV, "to have a woman finally take control and compliment us the way we compliment them, whether it is taking us out to dinner or opening up the door."
I wonder if Tameka felt disrespected. I doubt it. I would expect that a woman married to a man whose career is based on the appeal of his six-pack would not be fazed by this part of the job.
This song and video will help bring some attention to Usher's Here I Stand, released in April. The album had been deemed a dud, despite making a solid debut with more than 400,000 album sales.
I bet when Usher performs this song on tour he'll bring a female fan on stage at each venue. His 15-date One Night Stand tour kicks off on November 2 in Atlantic City and wraps on November 25 in Dallas.
The adult subject matter will also give Usher a break from the comparisons to Chris Brown, the young new R&B teen pop dancing machine who stole Usher's formula.


And for the record the difference btw this being work and play is wood. Catch my drift?
This is not the 1st Video, that my man has done ; that is ..... Hot-&-Steamy! That is stricty his "Album-Selling" Image!
This is simply Publicity, for the upcoming Album !!!!!!!
This is the future of our country? I don't see any doctors or lawyers coming out of this bunch. Get ready to sign a bunch of these folks up for welfare.
but i can see why people r upset ....i mean come on this woman is not only his babies mother but is wife!! n he is pretty much having sex with this video slut.....
I feel the disrespect......if i was her i'd blow both of them up (^_^) i see that Uhers wife is allowing him to do his thing n she supports him but man....wheres the line??
someone should make it bolder cuz Mr. Usher just stepped WAAAAAAAY over it!! U guys remember when he was with the girl from TLC right?? she was in all his videos.....so im wondering about some stuff here......
And to Mrs. Usher!!
Put ur foot down girl!!
Even Beyonce watches from the side lines of Mr. Z's videos!!
uggggghhh this soooo proves that marriage is a joke!! (T_T)