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Is Usher's "Trading Places" Video Disrespectful To His Wife?

Posted Fri Oct 3, 2008 10:24am PDT by Billy Johnson, Jr. in Hip-Hop Media Training

A couple weeks ago, MediaTakeOut alleged that the love scenes in Usher's new video "Trading Places" were so steamy that some of his staffers were upset, claiming that the newly married man had taken it too far.

An unnamed source reportedly described Usher's kisses with the video vixen as "disrespectful" to Tameka Foster, the superstar's wife and mother of his baby boy. Foster is rumored to be pregnant with the couple's second child.

After watching the video directed by Chris Robinson, I'm now clear about what prompted the controversy.

The song lyrics advocate intimate role reversal. Usher is telling his woman that he wants her to take charge romantically.

The video offers endless examples.

Usher and the leading lady enjoy extended romps on a bed, leather sofa and stair case.  There is so little clothing worn in the video that there was no need for a stylist or wardrobe budget.

Usher described the video as "very hot, very forward thinking." "This is kinda wishful thinking for all men," he told MTV, "to have a woman finally take control and compliment us the way we compliment them, whether it is taking us out to dinner or opening up the door."

I wonder if Tameka felt disrespected. I doubt it. I would expect that a woman married to a man whose career is based on the appeal of his six-pack would not be fazed by this part of the job.

This song and video will help bring some attention to Usher's Here I Stand, released in April. The album had been deemed a dud, despite making a solid debut with more than 400,000 album sales.

I bet when Usher performs this song on tour he'll bring a female fan on stage at each venue. His 15-date One Night Stand tour kicks off on November 2 in Atlantic City and wraps on November 25 in Dallas.

The adult subject matter will also give Usher a break from the comparisons to Chris Brown, the young new R&B teen pop dancing machine who stole Usher's formula.

2500 Comments

161. Ms. Sarcasm USA -
i like the video...i am not really feeling "here i stand" on the whole as an album..but i love this song.....if Tameka has the nerve to feel disrespected she needs to remember that this video is far less disrespectful than what she did to her former husband and three other children...

162. short stuff -
I think the media is dumb its a video a sexy video thats what he do make video and i dont think ushers wife should be made its just a video and he comes home 2 her every night so whats the problem if i was usher wife i wouldnt be mad at the media or who ever need to mind there damn business and let usher do what he do i love the video and the song keep doin what u do usher

163. Yahoo! Music User -
Stop hating on Usher, the vid was cool, the song is called trading places.....in the bed room, what else did you think he was talking about.

164. Toni -
I think the video was hot, he's also a actor so he was acting. Thats all i have 2 say. So keep doing your thing Usher:) Love ya

165. still not telling -
WELL THE VIDEO WAS VERY HOT, BUT IF THIS IS WHAT HIS WIFE GETS IN THE BEDROOM...SHE IS A TURELY LUCKY GIRL...I DON'T FEEL HE DISRESPECTED HER IN ANY WAY, HIS JOB IS TO SELL SEX, HE IS A SEX SYMBOL AND HE DID HIS JOB VERY WELL...I'LL GIVE THE NEW CD ANOTHER LISTEN NOW..LOL

166. Pretti and adorable -
now why has he gone to far i sure his wife understands did she make that statement most likely not he's acting no different from any other actor in a movie wasnt Billy Bob still married to Angelina when he did Monsters ball?

167. Michael -
See what a multi million dollar bank account gets you! If that was a common joe we would be divorced and would not have a women that fine on one of us! I guess money does make the world go around. I won`t have a women that fine wanting me!!!!

168. Reality Check -
I guess these idiots who said he took it too far don't watch movies where there are "love" scenes and how ronchy they are...lol
What loser has time to blog and complain about another person taking a kiss too far...let me see, people are probably single, and envious of those who have someone who actually want them so they biitch about things like this.

169. MichaelP -
who cares

170. Gwyn Nicole -
A kiss is a kiss. Artists don't have special exceptions into heaven just because they get paid to cheat. If anything that puts them into more of a prostitute roll. There are a lot of movies I would have liked just the same if if it wasn't in there but hollywood is either too lazy or too horny so they would rather just let it become the "norm" and reality.

171. Nae-Nae -
I think the video is super sexy! This is every man's dream for the woman to take control and do to them what the men do to us! If you pay attention, he never really kisses her so I don't see where it's disrespectful at all. It's a video, not real life!

172. Yahoo! Music User -
Well if Tameka forgot that her husband is still and will always be a sex symbol so it is part of his job to fulfill that. I hope that Tameka isnt insecure because as long as she knows that he is coming home to her at night she should have nothing to worry about!!!

173. Yahoo! Music User -
so what if the wife is not mad who the hell are we to comment she is the only one who has to deal with it get a life

174. Yahoo! Music User -
I don't think he is disrespecting his wife at all. He is simply giving the public what they want and we all know SEX SELLS! So Get Paid Usher and Keep making those hits! I personally love the video and ladies Usher is speaking out for a lot of men in his video. It's ok for us to take charge in the bedroom sometimes, me personally enjoy being in charge! So go ahead and suprise your man, TRADE PLACES like the man said! VT

175. MICHAEL -
Considering how many ppl were disappointed by the love in this club video (sexy song boring video) usher responded with something hot. This is what everybody was asking for and everybody got it but now what you have is haters doin their job. As a man he cant please everyone so i'm sure he just went with what he felt like would put the most money in his pockets and with this video he may have hit the jackpot

176. Francisco -
Dam this video is mad sexii!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thats what im talking bout Usher u back boy!!!!!!! Do your dam thing show all them new r&b artist that are tryng to steal ur thunder. NO ONE CAN EVER BE AS GOOD AS USHER!!!!!!!!!!!!! So hope off his style.

177. Yahoo! Music User -
God, I feel so sorry for this generation of black men and especially women. Accepting everything that the TV says is correct for you guys to do. What you need to do is go back to school..learn to type and re-learn English!!! All this text type is annoying and ya'll know better. It's sad when a black women has to tell black me and women younger than her that education is important. Reality is important. Stop watching videos all day and study. They need to take BET off the air, it is distroying our youth.

178. deandra -
hot has nothing on this video.

179. Yahoo! Music User -
The video is hot and it is a job. You go BOY!!When I say HOT, I mean HOOOOOOOOOOOOT!!!!!!

180. HoNeY S -
f all the "it's a new generation" and this and that... oh please! does anybody have any kind of respect anymore? seriously! yeah this is a new generation, but does that give the right to do watever you please? this is straight disrespectful. i dont know wat kind of relationship usher and his wife has, maybe she's that kind of girl that isnt bothered by it, but i know many that would be. i know i would!





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