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Did 'Dancing With The Stars' Insult Lil' Kim?

Posted Tue May 5, 2009 2:29pm PDT by Justin Mathews in Musictoob

Did Bruno go too far when he called Lil' Kim a "tramp?"

Lil' Kim, rapper and Dancing With The Stars contestant, is no stranger to criticism.

But many think judge Bruno Tonioli may have crossed the line Monday night from "tough judge" to just plain "jerk." If you missed it, the comment came after Kim and partner Derek Hough finished an elegant waltz.

Bruno, after saying he thought the other judges' favorable scores were due to "medication," ripped into Kim.

"You try to be a lady, but you're more comfortable being a tramp," said Bruno.

Many across the country were stunned--including Family Law attorney and marital expert Vikki Ziegler. What did the women's advocate and founder of DivorceDating.com have to say for Bruno?

"It was inappropriate and uncalled-for," said Vikki.

"I think he should issue a public apology. I think it sends a really poor message to women. [Lil' Kim is] in a competition, and her outfits, her behavior, are all 'it's a show!' I mean, isn't that what it's about?"

Ziegler explained to Musictoob what Bruno really meant.

"Calling her a 'tramp,' or 'looking like a tramp,' says to...young women, who want to be stars, want to be rappers, that somehow her behavior in a dancing competition evidences a lack of morals. That's what he was trying to say, and I think it was disrespectful and inappropriate."

The second dance of the night for Derek and Lil' Kim was the salsa; a dance that saw the return of what Kim called the "Bionic Booty."

But, perhaps anxious to begin damage control, Bruno gave a standing ovation to the pair as soon as they finished the sizzling Latin number--with not one mention of "unladylike" behavior.

The couple scored three nines, for a total of 27, on the salsa, making Kim one of the longest-running musicians on the show--easily beating out Belinda Carlisle and Chuck Wicks.

 

Musictoob exclusive: See Dancing judge Carrie Ann Inaba try to rap

Musictoob has exclusive, behind-the-scenes video of Dancing With The Stars judge Carrie Ann Inaba showing off her rap skills.

In the video, a promotional clip for Dr. Scholl's For Her, Carrie Ann Inaba introduces her on-set dance partner, then after a "blip" she raps: "Here she is/She's gonna give you some good/dance/shoe/tips!" and throws up a "sign."


 

To be fair, Carrie Ann says she's "obviously not a rapper." Luckily Lil' Kim wasn't there to turn the tables on Inaba and critique her hip-hop skills.    

 

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792 Comments

1. John -
That video is lol funny!!!

2. Guiness -
i agree with ms. ziegler

3. Cindy -
Meanwhile, lil kim executed a pretty nice waltz. So I don't know what he was even talking about.

4. Sol -
they targetted Kim on Monday night, as the others were not any better...I am sure that they will loose a lot of viewers on this one!

5. May I -
well, i dont't get it. she projects herself as a ho, so why r ppl getting mad..

6. sweetpea -
when I seen that my mouth dropped... I could not believe it. After seeing her facial expression, I think she was surprised as well. I think it was a very hurtful thing to say to anyway regardless of race.

7. A Country Girl Can -
I just thought he was trying to say something about Lady & the Tramp. My bad.

8. TJ -
I don't think he meant to be hurtful. He does, however, speaks before he thinks, which is a problem. I thought Lil' Kim was amazing and I'm so mad she is out. I love her dearly and she is the ONLY reason I watched the show. PERIOD.

9. Diane J -
Every since Lil Kim has been on the show, she has been wonderful and graceful. Not only should Bruno apologize, he should bring her back, Because she was one of the best dancer on the show. They need to get some new judges, some with flavor, because these judges have gotten to old to judge.

10. Amanda -
She portrays herself as a tramp. That's her character and she seems proud of it. No apology needed.

11. Stephanie S -
I don't think he really meant "tramp" like we mean tramp. Remember the song "That's why the lady is a tramp"? It doesn't mean a whore. It means...fickle.

I think he meant "sexy". You're more comfortable being sexy, not "whore-ish". He even responded that it was "lost in translation". I'd give him the benefit of the doubt.

12. Crystal S -
They exploited Lil Kim on this show. Bruno was wrong but they had been making comments like that for weeks talking about her butt. I started watching because of Lil Kim and they have lost a viewer in me. I think the way they made her look caused some people to not vote for her.

13. Daria -
Lady and the Tramp...come on people!!! Not an insult an honest angel and devil comment!! Even Lil' Kim knew what he was talking about... Lil' Kim is comfortable turning on the sex appeal...that's what we love about her performances. She's such a F***in' Lady and she represents that side in women. I'm just in shock that she was booted from the show...did everyone who was watching vote???

14. Ava -
I think it stink alot that LIL KIM was booted off the show you need to bring on some new judge.Bruno didn't mean what he say he can sometime say crazy thing at time's.He should apologize for what he said and let it rest.....

15. Stacey -
The only thing I know is that Ty should have been gone. There is no way in this world that he should have out-scored Lil Kim. I'm not a fan...but come on...the man has no rhythm and no charisma. This had nothing to do with skill.....no comment.

16. sissy -
Get over yourself. His comment was not an insult to all women, unless most women are too insecure and emotionally weak to brush off a poorly worded critique. All of this "woe is me" reaction only reinforces the stereotypical beleif that women are emotional cripples. I love Lil Kim and am sad she was eliminated, but I'm sure she has been called worse and that she has called others worse. I've heard her. So take your Midol and move on; I'm sure Lil Kim has.

17. patricia -
SHE WAS THE ONLY REASON I WATCHED THE SHOW.BRUNO SHOULD APOLOGIZE NO ONE SHOULD BE DISRESPECTED IN THAT WAY.WHAT IS THIS WORLD COMING TO.WHY IS TY STILL THERE HE TRULY SUCKS!!!!!

18. taybugg97 -
I have been a avid watcher of this show. However; after Bruno's extremely rude remark to Lil' Kim: I'm done. Who? Does he really think he is? He's to judge dance; NOT any other thing.

SO: I'll apologize to LIL KIM. "I AM SO SORRY; YOU WERE EVER PUT IN THIS PREDICUMENT." BABE; you rock. As for Bruno(?) his standing up BS(?) you are by far better then that.

I am rooting for you! (Northern Minnesota)

19. Yahoo! Music User -
I can see how women can take offense but I am a woman, a black woman, and it didnt offend me. I dont think it offended Kim either. First off she doesnt represent herself in the best light, not that she deserves to be called a tramp, secondly Bruno did excuse himself and rephrase his comment after the audience reaction. He just said it before thinking but I don't think he meant it the way everyone took it.

20. sprit -
`When i viewed the show and saw Lil' Kim dance the waltz or what ever the name of the slow dance was I was telling my self how graceful she has become and what courage she has to come from the hard core rapp world to the "dancing with the stars." I felt so proud of her. Then out from Bruno's heart he spoke the most damaging self esteem remarks he could have delivered to that young lady. Like a rubber stamp on a global network. Shame on him. I felt Lil' Kim's shock and disbelief. She kept graceful but I felt sad and embarrassed for her. She probably knew no matter how she performed, some peoples opinion of her will never rise above "jail cell". Yes he insulted her and her image. I'm sure she had felt proud of her accomplishment on the show and he unintentionally cut her down. Words she and the tv audience will never forget in the back of our minds. He owes her a public apology and should allow her to respond to his remarks globally. I wish her the best in life. You Go Lil' Kim.
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