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Did 'Dancing With The Stars' Insult Lil' Kim?

Posted Tue May 5, 2009 2:29pm PDT by Justin Mathews in Musictoob

Did Bruno go too far when he called Lil' Kim a "tramp?"

Lil' Kim, rapper and Dancing With The Stars contestant, is no stranger to criticism.

But many think judge Bruno Tonioli may have crossed the line Monday night from "tough judge" to just plain "jerk." If you missed it, the comment came after Kim and partner Derek Hough finished an elegant waltz.

Bruno, after saying he thought the other judges' favorable scores were due to "medication," ripped into Kim.

"You try to be a lady, but you're more comfortable being a tramp," said Bruno.

Many across the country were stunned--including Family Law attorney and marital expert Vikki Ziegler. What did the women's advocate and founder of DivorceDating.com have to say for Bruno?

"It was inappropriate and uncalled-for," said Vikki.

"I think he should issue a public apology. I think it sends a really poor message to women. [Lil' Kim is] in a competition, and her outfits, her behavior, are all 'it's a show!' I mean, isn't that what it's about?"

Ziegler explained to Musictoob what Bruno really meant.

"Calling her a 'tramp,' or 'looking like a tramp,' says to...young women, who want to be stars, want to be rappers, that somehow her behavior in a dancing competition evidences a lack of morals. That's what he was trying to say, and I think it was disrespectful and inappropriate."

The second dance of the night for Derek and Lil' Kim was the salsa; a dance that saw the return of what Kim called the "Bionic Booty."

But, perhaps anxious to begin damage control, Bruno gave a standing ovation to the pair as soon as they finished the sizzling Latin number--with not one mention of "unladylike" behavior.

The couple scored three nines, for a total of 27, on the salsa, making Kim one of the longest-running musicians on the show--easily beating out Belinda Carlisle and Chuck Wicks.

 

Musictoob exclusive: See Dancing judge Carrie Ann Inaba try to rap

Musictoob has exclusive, behind-the-scenes video of Dancing With The Stars judge Carrie Ann Inaba showing off her rap skills.

In the video, a promotional clip for Dr. Scholl's For Her, Carrie Ann Inaba introduces her on-set dance partner, then after a "blip" she raps: "Here she is/She's gonna give you some good/dance/shoe/tips!" and throws up a "sign."


 

To be fair, Carrie Ann says she's "obviously not a rapper." Luckily Lil' Kim wasn't there to turn the tables on Inaba and critique her hip-hop skills.    

 

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792 Comments

141. Yahoo! Music User -
mjb,
Not making it a racist thing...just responding to terry a who was making it a racist thing.

142. citygirl823 -
I think people are too easily bruised and offended. He did not mean it in a bad way and no one should take it there. Lil' Kim is more comfortable shaking her booty than being reserved and that's all he meant. Why do people have to immediately assume the worst and get defensive. Assume the best in people and we will live in a happier world.

143. Frank -
BIG , BIG BIG MISTAKE! She should still be there! The cowboy Ty Murray should have been gone a LOOOOOONNNNNNNNG Time ago. The problem is, The show lets people vote and the American people are A-- HOLES and the no NOTHING about dance

144. mary -
Sorry yahoo music lover , my bad

145. Yahoochic -
To Yahoo Music Lover.....they need to understand that if he knew nothing about dance he wouldn't be on the show DUH! I am just not impressed with his language usage.....it cheapens the show.....I see this with every new season....it gets more lax and things just slide by as though it is nothing.....I commend her for being a "Lady" and letting it pass...I am not so sure I could have restrained from that ugly comment...."thumbs up Kim"

146. spunky -
PERSONALLY, I WAS GLAD TO SEE HER GO. I WILL AGREE SHE WAS A BETTER DANCER THAN TY,BUT IN MY OPINION TY HAS CLASS, KIM HAS A TRASHY APPEAL. I WAS SO AFRAID SHE WOULD WIN, I SURELY DONT THINK TY WILL WIN BUT I LOVE THE REST OF THEM. GOOD RIDDANCE LIL'KIM!

147. D -
I was truly shocked he said that to her. I had to play it back to make sure that I wasn’t just hearing things and I thought "oh gosh plz tell me he didn’t just say that?!" haha. I know he didn’t mean for it to sound that way but whoa! He could have at least used another word and he did try to explain himself but from the looks of it, she seemed surprised and a bit hurt. Of all the ugly comments I’ve ever heard about her, she is surprisingly sweet and humble. She took that “insult” in stride and I think she understood what he meant but he just said “… you’re more comfortable as a tramp…” That comment would be insulting to anyone. She was doing great, sux she got booted... btw to most of the insulting comments about Lil Kim. I find u guys all ignorant. It doesn’t give ANYONE ANY right to say she deserved that comment. It doesn’t matter if she has been called worst or even if she "dresses" like one, it is still wrong. It is just about as bad as saying that a rape victim got what she deserved because she dressed and acted like a whore. Its ppl like you who are SO narrow minded that piss me off and I just bet that if that was said to your friend or even u, you would be getting all hot-headed and defensive about it. So grow up ppl and stop being so judgmental!

148. Yahoo! Music User -
Yahoochic,
I agree with you about the language. But what do you expect? Almost everything about television and Hollywood is designed to dumb down and coarsen our culture. They know they can't get where they want in one giant step, but one little step at a time and no one will notice.

149. michele -
No more lil kim!! Thats the only reason I watched the show. I think the cowboy should of went home. Well no reason to watch the show anymore.

150. sue -
Little kim home boys her crew that she hang out with don't even call her a tramp or a whore she does this for show. I only watch dancing with the star because of lil kim. Now you got the melissa woman that so call hurt herself (her ribs ) and now all of a suddenly she back and what a dazzling come back she made. I tdhink this show wants certain people to win and the world is supposed to feel sorry for the melissa who got dumped on national tv so they going to rig of something so that she can be the winner, oh please and tell me that the dallas cowboy cheerleaders was a saint, Not! I bet she had her tramping back in the days. And yet bruno or uno or what ever going to call lil kim a tramp on national tv. Well I will not be seeeing the show anymore, I'm tired of looking at people that think they can dance when they really can't and the american idol with people that think they can sing and judges that don't know what they talking about because they all fake and that this is all part of and act so they can get people to watch the program so they can get good rating and put different performers unique or performers like lil kim or mario its a wonder pink is'nt on the show. These
type of performers is why people watch the show and for the american idols I like watching it because of simon I don't even watchh that anymore because they really did'nt have any good performers in the last 2 years or so. So people out in tv land, if you really wants to see people that can really dance and sing just watch movies and until they can come up with really good show for the world to see I still be changing the tv channel Adios!!!!!

151. Danny K -
The whole thing sucks anyway.
Just take the show off the air.

152. Yahoo! Music User -
I think LlL KIM is a very good dancer and after Bruno's nasty remarks, I will not be watching the show anymore. If people stop watching the show "Dancing WithThe Stars" , then they will have to cancel the show or get rid of trampy mouth Bruno!!!!!!!

153. bar none -
I have listened to his off the wall comments for several years now, he in no way meant to insult her. I think he actually meant it as a compliment. She is much more comfortable shaking her bootie than doing the waltz. She knows that. He just used one of his unusual analogies of "Lady and the Tramp" to make the point. I think most people were surprised that she was eliminated. She has been an excellent contestant and she showed she is able to do something besides rap and be in jail. Hopefully she will take all of this positive exposure and put it to use. Anyone can see she is a very hard worker with a lot more potential than she has shown up until now.

154. What? -
I do not watch that show anymore. It been a while since I have even took a glance at it. It was a real pleasant seeing people put in hard work to really dance like that.It really got ridiculous when Jerry Springer advanced. about Lil Kim..I am not going to judge her past cuz it's over. What she is trying to make of herself now is all what count. She is not a representation of all women. If so, I would be calling my mom a tramp. Stop categorizing people with others. As far as I heard Kim did a great job. Keep doing the positive thing ,Kim.

155. caliguy -
Why do we have freedom of speech if it comes with so many strings attached and conditions? you can drive everywhere but not in rich areas or downtown, you can wear whatever you want but no jeans and tee shirts, you can eat whatever you want but no steaks or cold cut. Yeah that is pretty similar. If the judge wants to say that you look like crap it is his right it is up to you to prove him wrong. His opinion is as valid as yours. NO ONE opinion should be imposed on anybody or views forced on anybody. the law attorney and women advocate should keep her opinion to herself then. what goes around comes around. If bruno had no rights to say what he said than she has no right to voice her opinion either.
Fair is fair.

156. lolokailey -
I don't know why people always make things a "COLOR" thing!! What Bruno said to Lil Kim was rude, wrong and uncalled for and he should have had to make a public appology. But to insinuate that it is because she is BLACK is absolutely ridiculous. Get over yourself "Chicago" and talk about the real issue instead of blaming everything on colour and race etc etc etc!

157. It's ME! -
Lil' Kim and Gilles were so far ahead of the pack, they were the only ones who could possibly become pros, and Lil' Kim gets voted offf? There needs to be a recount by an independent co., such as Price Waterhouse, esp. since they had a technical malfunction that evening. As for her being a tramp, if you ever heard her Tootsie Pop song, you would agree. I am almost impossible to shock, and when I heard that song a few years go, I was shocked and disgusted. In fact, if Gilles had not been appearing, I would not have watched, because of that song. But I'm glad I did, as they are both wonderful to watch, and that song was just a stupid mistake, because she has obviously matured.

158. Ann -
Bruno needs to apologize to Lil' Kim and all women in general; he was totally out of place with his "tramp" comment. Len should apologize to all the stars for his brash, crude behavior and unneccesary comments as well. A professional "he is not nor is he a gentleman". Carrie Ann has had her moments too. Maybe we need a whole new staff of judges and pros who are professional and more polite with their comments. Some of these performers have never danced before and some of the comments are unnessary.

159. GeraldineS -
Come people this is to promote a person to the next level of dancing with the stars o.k. lil kim had very good score her but never got any larger see you people is missing the view when she came out day 1 cover over dancing the her butt off she got high scores from Bruno and low key comments when she came out like the other women showing her body he got careless and said what he felt through the entire program Lil kim got a body and curves to go with it, he could't handle the body or the Butt this is why he said what he did I only watch it because she moves like a black women when we dance we got soul butt, and curves to go with it yes I tryed to vote the line stay busy for over15 mins Bruno is a punk lets treat him like a punk . lets boycott the show yes oprah not going to get involved why she got were she is due to people listening to her showed and money, Lil Kim get you a lawyer Bruno said what he was thinking teach him and others to be careful on the words he let out his mouth. sue his skinny Butt something he wish he had .

160. Yahoo! Music User -
Have any of you actually listed to a Lil Kim song? Seen her videos? Know anything about her besides Dancing with the retards?

Go read some lyrics then tell me she isn't a tramp.. She seems to make it pretty clear ..
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