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Nov. 12-19: How The West Was Lost

Posted Thu Nov 15, 2007 3:45pm PST by Lyndsey Parker in That's Really Week

We here at That's Really Week usually keep on the lighter side of the news. But this week is heavy, man. There's no way we can crack any jokes about this week's top story. So we're not going to even try.

We're sure by now you've read the news that Kanye West's beloved mother--inspiration for his song "Hey Mama," author of Raising Kanye: Life Lessons From The Mother Of A Hip-Hop Star, and major influence on Kanye's music--passed away last Saturday. Until now, 2007 had been a year of amazing highs for Kanye (winning that 50 Cent sales war, releasing one of the most successful albums of the year, triumphing at the BET and Mobo Awards, upstaging almost everyone at the Concert For Diana, planning his wedding with fiance Alexis, etc.). But now the year is ending with the lowest of lows, as Kanye has lost one of his biggest supporters, Dr. Donda West.

What compounds this tragedy is how Donda passed away. The woman was only 58 years old, and she died before her time due to complications from cosmetic surgery. One look at any photo of the good Doctor shows she looked pretty damn great for 58 (and we're sure Kanye thought she was beautiful just the way she was), but even a wise professor like Donda was susceptible to societal pressure on women to stay 25 forever. And so she went under the knife for a breast reduction and tummy tuck, and sadly never recovered. Any woman of a certain age who's been seduced by promises of firmer flesh, as peddled by surgery shows like Extreme Makeover and The Swan (which conveniently condense the often harrowing post-op recovery period into about three minutes of airtime), should think long and hard about what happened to Donda before making their own appointment with Dr. 90210.

Speaking of surgery shows, the Discovery Health Network has announced that for the time being it will stop airing Plastic Surgery: Before & After, which was hosted for five years by Donda West's surgeon, Jan Adams. And speaking of good doctors...well, it's looking like Dr. Adams might not be one. All sorts of unflattering allegations have surfaced against him since Donda's death: That he agreed to perform Donda's operation even though at least one other surgeon had refused to do so because of her pre-existing condition. That malpractice lawsuits had been filed against him in the past. That he'd had two drunk driving arrests (see mugshot at right). That the state medical board had recommended his license be revoked. That his ex-wife once took out a restraining order against him. The list goes on and on and on--and it's not pretty.

In fact, only six days after Donda's death, a $30,000 warrant was issued for Dr. Adams's arrest, because he failed to appear at a hearing (for a case stemming from a malpractice lawsuit by a patient who claims he left a sponge inside her). However, eventually Adams did turn up (he said he was stuck in traffic). We're guessing Kanye will soon want his day in court with Dr. Adams, too--and we hope the doctor doesn't show up late for that case, because we know the famously hot-tempered Kanye wouldn't tolerate any tardiness.

The usually outspoken Kanye has actually laid very low this week. He understandably pulled out of his scheduled performance at this week's Victoria's Secret fashion show, and the only statement he's made regarding this tragedy is an obviously publicist-crafted press release asking that, in lieu of flowers, donations be made in his mama's name to the Kanye West Foundation/Loop Dreams Teacher Training Institute (kanyewestfoundation.org).

Meanwhile, Dr. Adams has issued the following statement: "I first want to express my deepest condolences to the West family at a very difficult time. Out of respect for the West family and in the absence of other verifiable information, any comment from me without first discussing that information with the family would be unprofessional."

Looks like this is going to be a much more serious feud than that whole Kanye-vs.-Fiddy media stunt.

We could write about other stuff this week...but frankly, poking fun of the latest Britney debacle, Boy George arrest, Wacko Jacko rumor, or band reunion in light of this tragedy seems in bad taste. Yes, believe it or not, even That's Really Week has a good/bad taste line (albeit a thin, fuzzy one) that we refuse to cross. So we'll sign off for now with a shout-out of sympathy to Kanye. Remember, Mr. West: That that don't kill you, can only make you stronger.

 

THIS WEEK'S TOP STORIES:

1) Kanye West's Mom Dies After Surgery - Dr. Donda West was only 58.

2) Spears Shutterbugs Go Splat - Two paparazzi crash their car while in hot pursuit of Britney.

3) Oh, Boy: George Charged With False Imprisonment - The Culture Club singer allegedly did want to hurt his victim.

4) Drying Out With The Stars - Marie Osmond's son is being treated for addiction.

5) When Hannah Montana Fans Attack - A class-action lawsuit is filed against the Miley Cyrus Fan Club.

6) Whole Lotta Cash - Led Zeppelin reunion tickets sell for $170,000.

7) Victoria Spills Her Secrets - Posh Spice talks exclusively to Yahoo! Music.

8) Never Can Say Goodbye - The King Of Pop may get back together with the Jackson 5.

9) Bloody Good News - In the meantime, seminal shoegazers My Bloody Valentine confirm reunion concerts for 2008.

10) They Tried To Play A Show At Rehab... - But employees at a California drug treatment center said no, no, no to Queens Of The Stone Age.

1144 Comments

1. Gerrie -
Bless her soul for being a hero, leading a very decent productive life and raising an artict son all by herself. What a Tiger!!!

2. prettypattijo -
Bless you and your entire family. May God just hold you in his arms and you feel the comfort of it. Kanye you just need to keep on keeping on...it will work it's way out through lots of time and tears. It took me 8 yrs to get over a loved ones loss and please don't let it take over your every thought and consume you. You are in my prayers...Love a fan, Pattijo

3. Deborah -
May God be the glory. Stay strong and keep your head up. God don't make no mistakes. You were not ready for her to go but God had a better plan for her with him. Stay true to what she taught you and remember she is watching. Holla

4. Clara -
my heart goes out to you and your family.god will take care of you.just trust in him.

5. lee -
Thanks to R. Kelly, for opening Double Up Tour with Condolence for Dr. West. Excellent show and Keyshia Cole's no show did not spoil the occasion. Yes we should get our money back from Ms. Cole, all of Columbus,Georgia attendees.

6. kpomski -
i'm sorry 4 dis it's so horrible but God bless 4 raising up someone like u she's such a
cub but i know everything happens 4 a reason i
know she's with God and i know he will keep
her safe with him and i know she will continue
2 watch over u rite 4rm heaven i'm so so sorry
especially 4 d fact dat i have 2 c my idol so
sad.

7. kelly -
kanye i am a fan i have lost my mother and my grandmother within 6 months apart from each other and just this september me and my children lost everything we own in the home they raised and loved me in so i am hear to tell you that the lord never puts more on you then what you can bare you are crying now but joy and comfort will come in the morning yes you will miss seeing her smiling face and hearing her comfort words but with the strength of the lord above you will make it this is from your loyal fan kelly daniels

8. kpomski -
I'm so sorry c i just can't stop writing 2 u
i know how sad u feel it's quite painful but
u'll get thru it.dis one's 4 u.
EVERY DISAPOINTMENT IS A BLESSING PARTICULARLY FROM GOD. I know u will make it thru.

9. Penelope -
Hey kanye its not the end of the world we all go through taugh times, but just know that God is always there for you have faith in him he is there forever, everythang happens for a reason, God had a reason why he did that. But life goes on i am your best fan from Botswana Southern Africa.

10. osa -
Kanye i dont even know if u gonna read dis but u need to know that your mum is looking down at u and not looking up at u. she in heaven lookin down at u. dont worry we all know she is proud of u no matter where she is. better fins are yet to come in ur life and she will always look after you. Good luck and release an even better album nxt year

11. Papoose -
One of the greatest things in life is the love
of a mother. You have so much to be thankful
for in being loved by the best mother in the
world. Continue to strive and work hard because that is what she taught you to do.
Please remember GOD has his arms around you.

12. ParaDyce -
Sorry for ur loss. My Bigg Sister will take care of her...I will keep you in my prayers...

13. Tanya -
My prayers are with you at this time of sorrow. I know what it is like to loose someone very special. Think of all the good times that you all shared. She will always be with you in heart and mind. May God Bless you with all of your accomplishments.

14. Shanetta -
Im so sorry for your loss.May god be with you and your family.And always remember shes looking down on you and saying how proud she is of you and what you have accomplished.Also
know god and his angles are over her.

15. Wendy -
My condolences to you and your family during this difficult time, I pray God gives you strength and peace. You a great person and artist, I have every last one of your cds, you are such an inspiration to my two boys ages 12 and 13. Keep up the good work. There are people out there that really love and care about you, your fans. Take care!

16. kathy -
I recently lost my mother so I understand your loss. Keep your head up and don't lose faith. God does not make mistakes, though you may feel her life was cut short. Lean on the Lord and you will make it.

17. qiana -
Kanye I do not know what it is like to loose a mother. But when I lost my grandmother the day before my birthday in 2000 i was devastated. Unfortunately we do not have the power to control life or death; However i can say this much even though it was a unexspected tragedy everything happen in due season and even though you felt like it was not her time to go God felt like her time here on earth was completed and her time to go home was now. I learned long time ago that you have to trust God and so i am going to tell you the same. We love you Kanye and the music you have created for all to hear. Keep your head up and be strong. Your mother is in a better place. Living the Good Life in heaven with the father. She know no more suffering and heart ache, struggling, or triumphs. She is at peace. My prayers, and condolences goes out to you and your family and continue to be blessed.

18. Karema -
I want to express my greatest sympathy to Kanye West and his family. This is a big loss to him. She was a wonderful woman and mother. She has a great son and definitely died proud and smiling. She is an angel in heaven watching all over her son and family and friends. It does make me think more about plastic surgery and the complications that can arise from them. Several famous and not so famous have died or suffered severe complications from trying to be thin or more younger. Think wisely and choose a good doctor if you are thinking that route. God bless you Kanye and stay Strong!

19. rowena -
HEY SHE IS GONE BUT HER SPIRIT WILL ALWAYS BE IN YOUR HEART AND MIND...........

20. Dorian -
Stay strong ye and and don't let anyone's ignorant comments get to you. I met Ms.West at a visit to CSU, several of my friends attend the college. She was a down to earth individual, but then again how couldn't she be w/ a son like yourself. Needless to say she also was very inpsirational, allowing young African American women to see that anything is possible IF you try your hardest and believe in yourself. Much love to the West family. God Bless her soul.
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